Sunday, November 29, 2009

Grief

I know that I haven't posted in about 2 weeks. The holidays are always a rough time around our house. My FIL (father in-law) passed away a couple of years ago right around Thanksgiving. In fact, we ate Thanksgiving dinner that year at a Shoney's in Chattanooga, TN. This year was doubly hard as we lost our first cat to cancer.

We had only been married for a short time when we adopted our first kitty. We had both grown up with dogs but thought a cat was much better suited to apartment living. We did a little research to find out when the local pound was open and found out that they were only open late on one day a week, Wednesday. They didn't have weekend hours either. I have no idea how they expected people who worked all day to be able to adopt these animals but I digress.

We went to the pound on that Wednesday evening and found out that if you wanted to adopt an animal you had to get on a waiting list for said animal and then if the people ahead of you did not adopt it by a certain date, you had the opportunity to adopt. (Again, I don't know how they expect people to adopt these poor animals.) So we asked them to show us all of the kittens that would be euthinized the next day if the were not adopted. Out of all the kittens we saw, I wanted to adopt a small, gray female but Sir Lancelot wanted an orange male with big ears. Now I don't care for orange cats much and I begged and pleaded for the gray one, but his mind was made up. So we went home with the little orange kitty in a box with a towel and I cried for all the kitties that would die the next day.

We went through a couple of names before we settled on Roscoe P. Kitty. He was so cute and playful. His favorite toy was a box. It didn't matter what kind of box, he just wanted a box to play in. About a week after we got him, he developed a bit of an URI so back to the vet he went. The antibiotics made him sleep a lot and he spent a lot of time curled up on my shoulder while he slept. He managed to worm his way right into my heart!

Apartment living was fun with him. One night he climbed one of the speakers, walked across the entertainment center onto the mantle and knocked over a crystal candlestick holder. He insisted on walking through the glass while I was trying to clean it up and I had to toss him across the room into the dining area to get him to stop. He also gave me quite a scare when I couldn't find him when I came home for lunch one day. It turns out that he had managed to get behind the washer but couldn't turn around to get out or back up.

It was probably 6 months later that we bought our first house. Then he had lots of space to explore and play. It wasn't too long before we adopted another kitty to keep him company. They never became best buddies, but they did keep each other company and 2 kitties are certainly more entertaining than one!

Roscoe's favorite place to be was in Sir Lancelot's lap. As soon as Sir L would get in the recliner and spread a blanket on his legs, Roscoe would jump up and start purring. They were best buddies! They watched football together, napped together and played together. Roscoe would be at the door when Sir L would get home. In fact, I always knew when Sir L pulled into the driveway because Roscoe would start meowing quite loudly.

Roscoe grew into his ears and at one point tipped the scales at 21 lbs. He would lay across the hallway and we would call him a speedbump. He refused to drink out of a bowl and would wait in the sink for you to turn the water on. He also loved to jump in the shower after we were done. He would give sweet little kitty kisses but hated being picked up.

A little over a month ago, he developed a little kitty cold. We didn't take him to the vet as he got over it in a couple of days. But we started to notice that he wasn't eating as much or as often. We thought he didn't like the food and tried other brands, both crunchy and wet. Then he stopped drinking. Off to the vet we went. They did some blood work which came back clean, so they gave us an antibiotic & appitite stimulant to give him and they gave him subcutaneous fluids. Over the next 2 weeks we gave him the medicine but he still wasn't eating much. Back to vet we go. They did some more blood work and it showed that he was anemic. So, more subcutaneous fluids, another antibiotic and a steroid. By the time his follow up appointment with the vet arrived, I knew something was really wrong. He was very weak (again, not eating or drinking) and lethargic. I worked from home the day of his appointment so I could spend the day with him. I sat in the recliner with a blanket and he laid on me the entire day and didn't move. (Very unusual since he usually didn't want anything to do with me.) When we got to the vet, he said that it looked like he had fluid in his abdomen. He drew some out and it was a strawlike color. The vet told us that he was 99% sure that it was cancer and the only way to know for sure was to do an MRI or CAT scan or just open the cat up. We decided that he had suffered enough and had had a good 13 years that he wouldn't have had. It was the hardest decision I have ever had to make. We stayed with him right through the end. I shed a lot of tears that weekend and I still cry sometimes.

It is a little quieter in our house. A little lonelier. I miss him waiting for me in the bathroom for a drink when I get up in the morning. I miss him bounding down the stairs when it was time to eat. I even miss him biting me because I picked him up against his will. I miss all the little things he used to do.

So here's to you Roscoe P. Kitty (aka, the Manatee, speedbump kitty, fatso, Walrus, baby kitty, pig, Turkey Burgler, Pumpkin Pud) . . . may you rest in peace! We will always love you!


Roscoe P. Kitty
1996-Nov. 20, 2009

Thursday, November 05, 2009

Kitteh Thursday

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Monday, November 02, 2009

Rock and roller cola wars, I can't take it anymore

Billy Joel pretty much summed it up for me with those lyrics. Between a stressful week at work last week, a sick cat and a sick me I'm done in.

We took the cat to the vet on Friday. They did a blood draw for several test which all came back normal. They gave him some meds and put in subcutaneous fluid sacks to help with his dehydration. If he would just eat more and drink water. I am pretty sure that he has a hairball that he is having problems with and he won't even eat the hairball goo we give him. He usually can't wait for it and we call it his "candy" as he loves it so much. So not only are we putting an antibiotic down his throat and trying to slip an appetite stimulant into his food or a treat, but we're having to smear the hairball goo on the roof of his mouth so he eats it. Oy vey!

I have been fighting some kind of cold or something since last Wednesday. I spent Saturday on the couch napping and Sunday on the couch knitting. I hate feeling like I've been hit by a bus, but it was good for the knitting. I did several repeats of the lace pattern on Mom's scarf. The Drops Alpaca yarn is so soft. I can't wait to block it to open up the lace pattern. It's going to be beautiful!


I know I said that I wouldn't cast on anything else until some of the UFO's become FO's but I broke down. I needed some mindless knitting last week while I taught a husband & wife how to knit. So I cast on for a pair of boot socks. I finished the first sock up on Thursday and got started on the second one. I love how fast they go! When I get done with these I'll have to do another pair for Sir Lancelot. Can't let my knight's feet get cold this winter. And believe me, winter is just around the corner here in Michigan. They are calling for some snow over the next couple of days. I am not ready!!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Kitteh Thursday

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I'm afraid that this is how it will be all too soon here in Michigan.

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

How time does fly . . .

I can't believe it was one year ago today that my nephew came into this world. He truly was and is a miracle baby!


I remember getting the call that my SIL had gone into labor and they were heading to the hospital. I wanted to be there but they lived several hours away. I was really excited and just bouncing off the walls. Shortly after getting the news that her labor had started, I had a very strong feeling/impression that I should pray for her. I did. A little while later that feeling was back and even stronger. So I stopped and said a prayer for her and the baby. This feeling/impression kept coming all day long and every time I would get it I would stop and pray. It was later that afternoon when I got a call from my mom telling me that there had been problems with the delivery. Every time my SIL would push the baby's heart would stop. They finally decided to do a C-section and found the cord wrapped around his neck. Everyone came through fine and the baby was very healthy. I am so glad that I prayed when I got those feelings. They really needed it!

So Happy First Birthday Brandon! You are a miracle! I love you my little Bubby!


Friday, October 23, 2009

Kitteh Thursday (a day late)

Since I missed Kitteh Thursday yesterday, I will provide you with 2 kittehs today.
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Tracing my crafting heritage

While perusing Ravelry today, I came across a question on the message boards asking, "Who inspired you to make stuff?" This question got me thinking and I started tracing my crafting family history.

I can't seem to remember a time when I wasn't doing something crafty. I can remember sitting on the floor playing in front of my maternal great-grandma as she knit. I used to love going through her knitting basket and watch her manipulate the yarn with the pointy sticks to make something beautiful. I can only remember Mom Mom (that's what we called her) knitting, though I am told that she used to crochet, embroider, do needlepoint and tat. She made lovely bedspreads out of crochet cotton and embroidered many a tablecloth for holidays. My mom tells me that knitting was Mom Mom's favorite hobby. I remember when I was around 8 years old, she cast on several stitches and tried to teach me to knit. I struggled with it and really didn't have the patience to practice enough. I really wish I had applied myself so that I can say she taught me to knit, but I truly believe that she planted a seed that finally sprouted about 6-7 years ago.

My maternal grandma did not knit, but she did crochet...a lot. I distinctly remember all the flowers she crocheted out of the fine cotton. She would also make fridge magnets and lapel pins. She was also into needlepoint and made many a kleenex cover out of plastic canvas. She did ceramics for several years and we still have many of the pieces she made. I have a beautiful holly leaf sleigh with two reindeer for Christmas. I know that she used to sew as well. She just loved making things and encouraged my brother and I to be crafty as well.

My mom was a HUGE influence on my craftiness. She was always doing something crafty. She was an avid sewer when I was younger and would make cute mother-daughter outfits for us. She crocheted all the time. I still have the giant granny square afghan she made me in the '70s that is brown, yellow and orange. She did crewel, needlepoint and embroidery. She got in on the macrame fad. She continued to sew and made me a "Cabbage Patch" knock-off when they couldn't afford to buy me one. She made clothes for my Barbie doll and made several of our Halloween costumes. Every Christmas she would buy my brother and I some craft kit to work on while on Christmas vacation. One year it was shrinky dinks, another we made ceramic tile coasters, another year we made bird marionettes. Even in the summer she kept us busy with crafts. If it was rainy and we couldn't play outside, she would have us making pencil holders by using fabric pieces to cover tin cans or finger painting or any other craft type project she could think up. She didn't just get us started and walk away either. She would be right there with us doing whatever we were. She encouraged us to use our imaginations and be as creative as we could be.

When I was in college, I came home one Christmas to see a beautiful afghan she had crocheted. I begged her to make me one but she refused. Instead, she bought me the yarn and taught me how to crochet. I never did finish that afghan, but I learned a lot and have made several other crocheted afghans since then. I have dabbled in cross-stitch and scrapbooking. But ever since I taught myself to knit I have been addicted. Just like my great grandma, it is my favorite of all my hobbies. I spin and still crochet at times, and I even learned how to tat, but knitting is what makes me happy and I love knitting for my family!

It looks like the craft gene has been passed down through several generations in our family. I really hope my nephew got it! There are so many crafty things I want to do with him as he gets older. Now where did I put my needles, I need to knit!